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Well, today was frustrating and then not so frustrating...

Good news is Dads money problems may be solved with a screw up from the government, yay!

Bad news, Ontario child support has no arrears when the father had no fucking job! thats right folks, if your baby's daddy decides he'd rather be on welfare then have a job, he doesnt have to pay you support! In my case, I have been keeping track of when he pays and when he doesnt with a calender. Its been about a year since ive seen a dime...

Much to my surprise, our court order states he has to pay me 120$ a month, which hey, you know what? that is NOTHING compared to most people... that buys him his lunches for a week... but i still dont get that, because since 1997, they made the law state that if dad doesnt have a job, he doesnt have to pay and it doesnt build up... WTF? so he gets to be daddy, loving caring daddy and I get to support our child FULLY.

Now that being said, I would never forbid his from seeing his father, hes a good guy other than the no working part and not calling when hes gonna be late or not show up part. I also wouldnt wanna involve FRO because that would screw him up even more and put a wedge between our amicable relationship... So whats a girl to do? if you havent guessed, *I* have to get a job that supports our family with no help from the government. I also have to have a job so I can keep my child care subsidy, the only help I can have...

Now, this week I have a job interview at a local store that I would L-O-V-E to work at, because I need to make at least 20 hours a week to keep Eldens subsidy. So keep your fingers crossed for me! I would just be so happy If i got this job! Thanks for listening to my rant :)

I didn't know people actually read this, but now im informed a few family members read it and a few not. Hopefully at some point I'll upload some of my artwork, scrapping stuff... cards ect. for you all to enjoy... until then I'll leave you with this supercute picture of my kids... this picture just shows how much Elden adores his big sister, he idolizes that girl!